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Psychic Reading Relationship Tips

admin — Fri, 02 Mar 2012 19:35:29 +0000

Psychic Readings Relationship tips can come in many forms and give insight into many relationship problems, offering viable solutions to resolve these problems. If you are looking for psychic reading and relationship tips, you have come to the right place.

Psychic Reading Relationship tip #1 – If you have been having the same problem over and over again, ask a gifted psychic like Sophia Elise and Lady Sarah how to resolve the problem for good, as opposed to having the same issue arise over and over again.

Psychic Reading Relationship Tips

Psychic Reading Relationship tip #2 – If you want a commitment from a man or woman and cannot seem to get it, and don’t know if you ever will, stop looking for divine intervention and look for spiritual guidance from an accurate psychic reading. Your psychic reader will tell you if a commitment is coming, if it is possible, and if there is anything you can do about making it come to fruition.

Psychic Reading Relationship tip #3. – If you are having trouble getting closure from an ex, and cannot seem to move on, get real help from a psychic. You may be keeping yourself stuck on your ex, and using excuses to keep you from getting closure on that relationship. A psychic will be able to tell you if it is time for you to move on, or if the connection is still present on both sides, and you will be getting back together.

Psychic Reading Relationship tip #4 – If you are involved in affair, you may not have anyone you feel comfortable sharing the truth with. Psychic readers are non biased, and will tell you the future outcome of this affair, and if it will lead anywhere or fizzle out.

Psychic Reading Relationship tip #5 – If your ex is causing problems with your current relationship and you fear you may lose the new love in your life, an accurate psychic can help you find the right way to deal with your ex and how to keep the new love you have strong and secure.

Psychic Reading Relationship tip #6 – If you have not gotten the label of “girlfriend” yet and are either stuck in the booty call, friends with benefits, or just plain friend zone, a psychic reader can see if you will be able to change that status and get that label, or if you are just wasting your time.

Psychic Reading Relationship tip #7 – Letting go of emotional baggage. Emotional baggage from the past can be keeping your current relationship from moving forward. A psychic reading can tell you the best methods to let go of the baggage, and how to get the one you love to let go of theirs.

Psychic Reading Relationship Tip #8 – Improving Communication. If your relationship has deteriorated to the point where the two of you cannot have a civil conversation, a psychic reader can help you find ways to communicate in a productive way, or let you know that this relationship has reached a dead end.

Psychic Reading Relationship tip #9 – Cheating, lying, and betrayal. Should you give him another chance if you found out he was unfaithful? Is it true that “once a cheater, always a cheater”? You heart has already taken a beating, and a psychic reader will tell you if you should give him another chance, or if he can no longer be trusted with your heart.

Psychic Reading Relationship tip #10 – Soulmates. If he is your soulmate, why is it such a difficult relationship? Why are you and your soulmate having such a hard time? A psychic reader can better explain your soulmate connection, and what lessons you both have to learn to make your relationship work.

Psychic reading relationship tips are worth their weight in gold. When you need answers and relationship helps, tips, and guidance, psychic readings are the way to get them. Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise are both master psychics specializing in love and relationships. They are here to help you get your relationship on track and guide you to the relationship you desire and deserve.

You can read more articles about relationship issues and concerns from Sophia Elise and Lady Sarah at their Psychic Relationship Reading blog.

Isn’t He Afraid of Losing Me?

admin — Tue, 11 Oct 2011 18:40:18 +0000

Is your boyfriend or husband pushing the envelope with his bad behavior? Do you wonder why he keeps crossing line after line and is unafraid of the consequences? Do you ask yourself (and others) “Why isn’t he afraid of losing me?”

Well, one answer to that question could be ”Because you have taken all that fear away from him”. Another answer could be “Because he really doesn’t care if he loses you”.

Which one is it?

I am not afraid of losing my newspaper because I could simply go out and buy another one, plus the newspaper is not that important to me. I throw it out at the end of the day. Is that how your boyfriend or husband feels about you? Does he think you are replaceable? Does he give you very little worth in his life? If he does, that is your answer right there. You are not afraid to lose something that holds little or no value to you.

The other answer is more complex. If you have repeatedly led your boyfriend or husband to believe that no matter what he does, says, doesn’t do, or doesn’t say that you are not going anywhere then why should he be afraid of losing you? You convinced him that you will put up with anything he dishes out, so why should he be afraid? If there have been no consequences to his actions, nothing negative happens to him after he does what he does, so of course he will do it again.

Let’s use football as an example. You and your husband agree that on Sunday you both have to get some work done around the house. He promises week after week to do it, yet keeps watching the football game. You get angry week after week, and because these things need to get done, you do it yourself or keep on him that this stuff has to get done.

Let’s look at that from his perspective. There is work he doesn’t want to do. It isn’t fun. Watching the game is. What price does he pay to watch that game and not do the work? Some complaining from you. He decides that is a fair enough price to pay to do what he wants and not what you want him to do. So what do you do? RAISE THE PRICE TO SOMETHING HE CANNOT AFFORD OR IS NOT WILLING TO PAY.

So when you wonder why he isn’t afraid of losing you, ask yourself if you made idle threats. Did you tell him if he continues to do “x” you would end the relationship? Did he continue to do it and you did not end the relationship? If the answer is yes, then why did you threaten him with no follow through? You taught him to call your bluff because you do not mean what you say. Either stop threatening him or learn to follow through. Only then will he take you seriously.

If you are worried or depressed because you feel powerless in your relationship and that your husband or boyfriend is not afraid of losing you, give Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise a call for a psychic love reading or tarot card reading for you and your relationship. They can tell you if your guy just simply doesn’t care enough to be afraid, or if you can do something to make him afraid of losing you.

Time to End it Versus Wasting Time to Mend it

admin — Fri, 22 Jan 2010 06:14:13 +0000

A few women were recently discussing relationships and one was mentioning that her new, less than 6 months old, relationship had numerous issues and problems they couldn’t get past. One woman suggested couples counseling. I was stunned. Other women at the table agreed it might be a good idea. I was more stunned.

Once I picked my jaw off the floor I said “Why not end it?”. The women turned to me and they were stunned.

“Why end it?” one said.

I asked “Why continue when the signs are so obvious and numerous that is not the right relationship?” I went on to explain that dating is a process we are supposed to use to find the right one for us, and if he is not, let him go and keep looking.

Women now seem to find the wrong guy and then try and make him the right guy! This works less than 1% of the time, if that. They waste years and years crying, fighting, and for what?

Is this really less work and more fun than dumping the wrong guy and putting that same effort into finding the right one? Is it really easier to have the same jamoke do that same shit that pissed you off the last 100 times he did it than to try and find someone who won’t do that to you?

Is it more fun to be disappointed when the same promises are broken time and time again as opposed to trying to find someone whose promise is something more than lip service? Is it more entertaining to try and force, mold, and shape someone into what you want them to be (and they fight you every step of the way) than to find someone who is that guy already? Don’t tell me its hard to find the right guy when you aren’t even lookingand instead wasting time with the wrong one. Don’t complain that you don’t want to be alone when you are with someone who makes you feel alone even when they are there. Don’t tell me you can invest time, energy, effort, tears, etc on the wrong guy, but you can’ invest in yourself? Why don’t you stop trying to make dysfunctional, failing relationships work, and instead focus on you. It is better use of your time, resources and energy.

ARE YOU CONFUSED ABOUT WHAT TO DO WITH YOUR DYSFUNCTIONAL RELATIONSHIP? ARE YOU STRUGGLING TO FIGURE OUT IF IT IS TIME TO MOVE ON OR IF IT IS WORTH FIXING? SOPHIA AND LADY SARAH ARE ABLE TO SEE DEEP INTO THE HEART OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP ISSUES TO SEE WHERE THEY ARE BROKEN. IF IT IS FIXABLE THEY WILL GIVE YOU THE TOOLS TO FIX IT. IF IT IS BROKEN BEYOND REPAIR THEY WILL HELP YOU MOVE ON. GIVE THEM A CALL TODAY AND STOP WASTING TIME IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT IS MAKING YOU UNHAPPY! THEY ARE HERE TO HELP!

Were they Born to Cheat?

admin — Thu, 17 Dec 2009 14:53:35 +0000

With astrology we can analyze the birth chart and determine certain personality traits and characteristics of any individual, as well as the life path they will take. Certain transits in the birth chart, and at times, transiting planets, will determine the answer to the question, “Will He/She Cheat.”

While transits may determine the probability of a cheater, it is important to remember that while a person may have the transits to be a cheater, all individuals have control over their own brain and actions. Sometimes, these tendencies are curbed by conditioning, religious beliefs and maturity.

Having the transits of a cheater doesn’t mean you have to fulfill that role. But, in all probability, in this day and age, chances are strong that if an individual was born with ‘cheating’ transits they will cheat. Sometimes, events (transits) occur that cause a cheater to change their ways, and sometimes these events never occur and the person never changes. That is usually the case. Sometimes, an individual who is not ‘born to cheat,’ gets caught up in situations and makes a decision to stray from an established relationship. This is astrologically speaking, a horse of another color than a ‘born cheater.’

To know if your significant other/interest is a ‘born cheater,’ the transits in the birth chart must be carefully analyzed. There is no single transit for a cheater, there are probably millions. There are no simple generalizations. Often, cheaters are born with planets that represent divorce. This is usually represented by some type of hard aspect between Uranus, and Venus, or Mars and Venus. But, every divorced person is not a cheater. And, at times they are the victims of cheaters.

Cheating birth charts almost always contain a hard Neptune aspect. Neptune is the planet of illusion, delusion and confusion, and well as secrets and lies. A person with prominent Neptune aspects in their chart can soar to the highest of highs, touching the divine or they can sink to the lowest depths of human depravity. Sometimes, in a life time they do both.

Neptune represents both the preacher, the spiritual guru, and the drug addict and the prostitute. It’s a complex planet. But, it’s often there when cheating is involved. Neptune can create a cheater sometimes when it’s touching Venus, Mars or Mercury, especially from the seventh house of marriage. But, this is a generalization again, and this transit alone does not guarantee a cheater, and Neptune in the seventh house can also represent a person who is going to be cheated on. Another possibility of a cheater is someone who has a lot of Gemini or Sagittarius in their chart and likes to keep things interesting.

These individuals are often not satisfied with just one partner and like to experiment and have a distaste for that which becomes mundane. But again, having multiple planets in these signs alone does not guarantee multiple partners. Mars or Pluto in the eighth house is another sign of a person who loves sex.

These people are usually more interested in the erotic side of life than most. This depends upon many factors including what aspects Mars or Pluto in the eighth house is making. Society began to change in the late fifties/early sixties, and a generation was born with Neptune is Scorpio (1957-1970). These individuals in particular, are sometimes unclear about sexual boundaries.

Again, this is a generalization, and if you were born during these years it is absolutely no guarantee you will cheat! But, Scorpio is the natural ruler of the eighth house of shared/joint finances, change and transformation and sex. Sex often has a great fascination for these individuals and some will experience vague and uncertain states connected to emotional and sexual involvement with others. Sometimes it exerts a magnetic influence, although the real thing often does not meet expectations.

So, while there are a million fourteen transits that will help identify a cheater, the entire chart must come under scrutiny before making that accessment. And it all really comes down to what we want as individuals and what price they we willing to pay for it.

used with permission from Leslie Hale, Astrolger

When Will He Commit? Ask Us Now!!!!

admin — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 23:12:17 +0000

When you first meet someone there is the hope that you will click, continue to spend time together, and enter in to a relationship. Being in a relationship to most people means that there is a commitment from both parties. But what if you have been with someone for a while and although you feel like you are in a relationship, no commitment has been forthcoming?

Sometimes women summon up the courage to ask their boyfriend when or if their relationship will ever become a committed one. Opening up a dialogue about commitment with the man in their life will either offer a satisfactory result or one that leaves them feeling disappointment. Your boyfriend (or any man in your life) could simply say they aren’t ready for a commitment and don’t know when or if they ever will be. So what are you supposed to do in a situation like that? Hope for the best that some day the commitment fairy will bless you with the relationship you want? Should you wait and see if a commitment is forthcoming? What if you wait for a commitment and never get one? How long is a reasonable time to stick with a relationship without a commitment?

The answers vary for each couple. Some women may not be ready to commit themselves to the relationship yet either. They are more than willing to wait for a commitment from the man they are seeing (or their boyfriend) because they aren’t sure if they are ready to fully commit. They know that both members of a couple should be ready for a commitment at the same time.

What often happens between men and women though is that the woman IS committed to the relationship, and the man is not. The man KNOWS the woman is committed, because she let him know either verbally, or by her actions. (Or both) He didn’t have to offer her a commitment in order to get one from her. She committed to him without getting a commitment in return. That was her mistake and a mistake that many women make when it comes to commitment.

One of the reasons a man won’t commit and be in an exclusive relationship with you is because he already has a commitment from you. He knows you aren’t seeing, sleeping, or dating anyone else. So what does he get by giving you a commitment? Nothing, he already has everything he needs. He also doesn’t feel a sense of urgency to give you one because you have already been with him without a commitment and he feels you won’t end the relationship.

Can his frame of mind when it comes to commitment change? That is a question you can find the answer to with a psychic reading. Your psychic advisor can do a reading on the man in your life and find out if he ever will commit, when he will commit to you, and how to get him to commit to you if possible. Would you rather wait around for your man to commit to you, possible risking NEVER getting a commitment? Wouldn’t you rather know how or if you can speed the process of getting your commitment from him? Wouldn’t you like to know if your man is committed to this relationship he has with you?

Sometimes, without having given you a commitment per say, he is still behaving as if he did. He may not have committed to you but has no intention or desire to sleep with another woman, date another woman, or do anything with another woman because he is happy with YOU. He is just waiting til he feels ready to discuss commitment with you. Wouldn’t knowing that make your wait a lot easier? We can tell you what is going on inside that man (or woman) you loves heart and mind. We can tell you WHY he hasn’t committed to you, and what the holdup is. Even though you aren’t getting a commitment from him, why not make a commitment to yourself? Call one of our psychic advisors and get the help you need to get the commitment you want, or to find out the truth that you will never GET a commitment from this man and either accept that fact, or move on.

Mixed Signals…? We Can Help You Un-mix Them and Gain Clarity

admin — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 22:50:03 +0000

When he or she calls you they seem so happy to hear your voice but then they don’t call for a while. Every time you spend together you both seem to enjoy, but the time you spend is far and few between. When you are together everything seems great, but they seem to sometimes pull away. They haven’t told you they aren’t seeing anyone but you but have implied they don’t want you to see anyone else.

Sometimes you feel like you are in a relationship, sometimes you don’t. That is because you are receiving mixed signals. No wonder you are confused!

A prime example of a mixed signal is when the person talks about your relationship as having a future, then turns around and makes a comment later on about how they arent ready to be in a serious relationship or get married. What are you to think? Do they, or don’t they? How many times have people found themselves in the position where there “friend” of the opposite sex either talks about intimate things or initiates something physical between the two of you? They said they wanted nothing but your friendship, but the way they are acting is saying something else entirely.

Why the mixed signals? Do they know what they want from you or not? Mixed signals can drive a person crazy. You never seem to know where you stand or what the other person is really thinking or feeling? How can a man or woman tell you how attractive you are and compliment you constantly on your looks yet never make a pass at you or act offended when you make one towards them? You thought the signal was clear, but now you are totally confused.

How can you read mixed signals? It can be very difficult, but start by trusting actions more than words. It is easier to lie with words, your reactions and behavior and more difficult to hide. Another great example of mixed signals is when one day they act like they adore you and the next they avoid you like you have cooties. Mixed signals such as that can really make the recipient pissed off along with confused.

A psychic reading can help you read mixed signals correctly. A psychic advisor can differentiate between what signal they are trying to send versus what signal they are trying to hide behind. Learning how to figure out mixed signals can be more difficult than learning a foreign language. Why not leave that to us? A psychic reading can cut through the b.s. and also tell you why this person is sending you mixed signals. Is it because they are playing games with you or for another reason? You don’t want to waste your time with someone who is playing games with you, so why not give one of our psychic advisors the opportunity to help you figure out what these mixed signals really are saying.

Psychic Love Reading

admin — Mon, 19 Oct 2009 03:01:38 +0000

People call psychics to find answers to questions about work, career, family or finances. But let’s face it, most people make the decision to call a psychic to find clarity in their love relationships. They want answers only a psychic love reading can provide. During a psychic love reading, a love and relationship psychic advisor can tell you where your current relationship is heading, if your partner is cheating or if they are returning after a break up.

A psychic love reading will be able to tell you where your current relationship is headed. If you have been seeing someone for some time, our love and relationship psychics will be able to tell you if this relationship is one that will move into commitment or marriage, if you will have children and so on. A love and relationship reading will also be able to point out any red flags or problems and our psychics will let you know those before they occur so you are prepared and head them off before they become an issue.

A psychic love reading can help you see your relationship from a different perspective. During a psychic love reading your love and relationship psychic will connect not only to your energy, but to the energy of your loved one to see the connection between you. During a psychic love reading, you will be able to assess the barriers that are preventing your current relationship from becoming the relationship you not only desire but deserve. By working closely with your love and relationship psychic during your psychic love reading you can identify the blockages that are holding you back.

A psychic love reading will be able to identify not only surface problems in your relationship, but those that go much deeper, perhaps creating the fear of intimacy preventing your partner from moving forward. A good love and relationship psychic will be able to give you guidance and advice to assist you in breaking past some of these issues.

Many people call for a psychic love reading when they have recently broken up with their partner and want to know if there will be a reconciliation. During the love and relationship reading your psychic will be able to look into the future so you know whether or not your love interest is returning or if it is truly over. If they are returning, a good love and relationship psychic will provide coaching and guidance on what steps you can take to ensure there is not another breakup.

Often during a psychic love reading your love psychic will be able to see and understand the reasons for the breakup. There will be the reasons that were presented to you on the surface by your partner, but very often the real reasons for the breakup are hidden. A psychic love reading will be able to unlock the mystery behind the breakup so you can be fully aware of what happened. For example, your partner may tell you the reasons for ending the relationship are because he wishes to spend more time learning how to weave baskets as it is a life long dream of his. During your psychic love reading, however, your psychic is able to see the real reason for the breakup is because he is insecure due a bad relationship experience in the past. Once you know and understand the truth behind the breakup, and there is a chance for a reconciliation, your love and relationship psychic will be able to outline specific steps to work through their issues.

Even though you may want to get back together with your ex and have been hoping for that to happen sometimes it is just not in the cards for the two of you. A psychic love reading will show whether or not the relationship will come back together A psychic love reading will reveal if it is time to move on. If your love and relationship psychic sees that the relationship has come to and end, they will tell you during your psychic love reading. Our psychics will not keep you stuck in a hopeless situation hoping for change nor will they give you a fairy tale ending if there is not one. If the relationship between you and your ex looks as if it has reached its final closure, your love psychic will tell you the truth.

Many people call a love and relationship psychic to see if their partner is cheating on them. During a psychic love reading, your psychic will be able to see if they have cheated in the past, if they are cheating now or if they plan on cheating in the future. During your psychic love reading your psychic will be able to provide guidance on how to deal with the cheating issue so you can address it from a place of empowerment and control.

Sometimes we have found ourselves walking the solo path for quite some time and wonder if we will ever find ourselves in a romantic situation again. A psychic love reading will reveal if there is someone new coming in to your life. A psychic love reading will tell you if this new person will be there for a season or for the long haul. Our love and relationship psychics will give you the guidance you need to find the man or woman who would make a good partner for you.h

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Where is Your Relationship Going?

admin — Thu, 15 Oct 2009 05:47:09 +0000

All relationships are different. They are as unique as the two individuals that define them. Some couples are married, some have an open relationship, some are simply sexual partners with no strings attached, yet each is considered a relationship. Too many people overuse the term relationship to describe the status between themselves and the person they love. Time and again, frustrated clients ask:

When are we going to be in a committed relationship?
When will we take our relationship to the next level?

Our questions back to you are:

If you wanted to be in a committed relationship, why aren’t you?
Is your partner against committed relationships or not ready for one?
Have you even discussed commitment with them?
Are you waiting for the “commitment fairy” to fly down and grant you your wish?

The answers to these questions, and more, should be discussed while you are dating. Often we find the term “relationship” is used too loosely and quickly when people first start going out. When you first meet someone and start going out socially with them, you are dating. Period. The dating phase is there for a reason: to discover BEFORE you invest yourself emotionally and psychologically whether or not they are looking for the same things you are. Oscar Hammerstein nailed it in lyrics for his musical “The King and I”: “Getting to know you, getting to know all about you….” It is during this important dating phase that you are getting to know someone to determine if they will be a good relationship choice for YOU.

Dating is the process of discovering if the person you are “dating” is relationship material. Use this time wisely, and honestly (in other words, don’t kid yourself) to see if this person really is a good prospect for what you are looking for relationship-wise. Now is the time to talk, listen, observe, learn and watch. Listen to what your partner says. Does it match their actions? Listen to what they say then let time and facts prove what they are saying to be truth. Make someone EARN your TRUST. Trust is not something to be given away freely, it should be earned, and if your partner is serious about growing the relationship with you, they will jump hurdles to ensure you trust them.

Be honest and open; let your partner know what you want out of life, relationships, love and sex. This is the time to express your needs and expectations as well as what factors would cause you to end the relationship. These important issues should be discussed during the dating phase, even more than you discuss favorite music, movies and restaurants. Obviously the first words on a first date should not be “Are you ready to get married?” but it should be more than acceptable to ask them what they are looking for.

Of course people can lie to you and they will, or they can “think” they are ready for a relationship when they are not. You will be much better off in the long haul if you find out what you need to know in the beginning. Ask the right questions in the early stages, such as:

Are you looking for a relationship?
What does being in a relationship mean to you?
What do you expect out of a relationship, and what can someone expect out of YOU?
When would you consider monogamy appropriate?
How long would you need to be with someone before you would consider yourself in a relationship?
How long would you need to date someone before you would consider being monogamous?
What about your past relationships do you miss?
What have you learned from your past relationships?
What about your past relationships do you never want to go through again?

Obviously you won’t want to drill someone with all these questions in the first hour of meeting them, and probably not all on the first date, but these questions are more important than knowing where the person went to high school, their favorite song or color, or what kind of car they drive. These are the “road signs” of what to reasonably expect from them if you decide to take the relationship “journey” with them. Keep in mind while this person is sharing their thoughts on the subject, it is your opportunity to speak up to let THEM know what your feelings are so they know what to expect from YOU.

Often during the dating phase, things start to deteriorate. One or both parties will say “It was so good in the beginning; we must be going through a rough patch”. Why does the rough patch sometimes seem to last longer than the good times? The answer is simply… because the first few months are always the best. Everyone is on their best behavior. As people become comfortable with each other, they let their guard down, and start acting more naturally. So the experience is what it is like to DATE that person for a few months, NOT what it WOULD be like to be in a relationship with them. Big difference.

Many people don’t know when it is time to bail and continue to hold on to the good times waiting for them to return. They don’t. They won’t. Accept it and move on. No one can maintain their “best behavior” for longer than several months. It is difficult and exhausting to maintain the façade. The masks crumble and the true personalities and behaviors are exposed… now THIS is the REAL person. This is who you will have the relationship with. It will never be the same as it was in the beginning. It is just not possible. Cut your losses and move on.

To really KNOW someone you should date regularly for about NINE MONTHS – yes NINE. It does not matter how much you talk on the phone until all hours of the morning, how great the sex is, how wonderful he makes you feel, how intense the connection is or whether both of your grandmothers have the exact same name and birthday… it still takes nine months. After all, that is how long it takes to make a baby, so why should a relationship with someone you want to spend the rest of your life with take any less? It shouldn’t.

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Many people operate under the wrong assumption that because they have sex with someone it automatically advances them to relationship status. WRONG! It takes time and patience which unfortunately the majority of people are not willing to invest. In today’s world of instant gratification, largely a byproduct of the internet, many people are looking for “instant relationships”. Remember, there are NO INSTANT RELATIONSHIPS and if you find yourself following this wrong way of thinking, we guarantee it will ultimately bring frustration and heartache.

So many people have sex with someone in the early stages of the dating game and invariably find themselves wondering:

Is s/he sleeping with anyone else?
Are we exclusive?

The real question, however, is why are you asking yourself this question? You should have asked the person you slept with, during the DATING process…and definitely before sleeping with them.

When a couple has dated long enough – yep, that is NINE MONTHS folks – and decided to be exclusive, they are officially IN a relationship. But where is the relationship going? Will it stay exactly as it is…just an exclusive relationship? Will you co-habitate? Will there be an engagement followed by marriage?

Many people want the relationship to go in one direction but their partner is fine where it is. Now we have two people wanting two different things, each trying to convince the other their way is best. Well, ONE of you is going to LOSE. Now is the time to find out if the relationship is going somewhere, or nowhere. You need to determine if it is going where YOU want it to go and you need to find out NOW rather than waste any more of your precious time. If you want to stay with someone knowing they will never live with you, marry you, have children with you or be committed only to you – that is fine. It is YOUR choice. It is time you made that choice based on REALITY rather than making choices based on your FANTASIES of what could be.

Let us help guide you through the relationship phase so it ends up in the place you want it to be. Let us help you get out of a relationship that is never going to go your way. Isn’t it time you faced the truth?

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Why Won’t He Commit

admin — Thu, 15 Oct 2009 05:04:14 +0000

You’ve spent time together and enjoy one another’s company. You think alike, share many of the same viewpoints and opinions, and have similar senses of humor. You are compatible in every way, including the bedroom. Everything is great except that he won’t give you a commitment. You get frustrated because he should know you are the right one for him, and he should know by now that you aren’t going to turn into a complete and total bitch and surprise him either.

So why won’t he commit? Each man is an individual, and their reasons for avoiding commitment vary. Some reasons why your man won’t be your boyfriend or your husband could include:

Loss of freedom. He feels that if he offers you a commitment that it will mean the end of his freedom. He will have to answer to someone, and what is expected of him increases. He will be held accountable for any behavior that does not coincide with a committed relationship.
Fear of failure. He isn’t sure he won’t screw up. If you have no commitment between the two of you, he can’t get called on the carpet for very much, because your relationship (or lack of) has no boundaries. If you do get upset or angry and say something to him, he can whip out his handy “We aren’t in a committed relationship” excuse card and you are left with nothing to say. Without that card, he no longer has a get-out-of-jail-free card. He is afraid that the more responsibility he takes for the relationship, and the higher your expectations are that he may be doomed to fail and lose you.
He isn’t ready for the next big step. Some men feel that once they offer a commitment or agree to be in a committed relationship the next step after is marriage & family. They may feel that a committed relationship is almost the same thing as asking you to marry them. They think that you and everyone else will feel that the relationship will most likely lead to a permanent one, like marriage. Which brings us to:
Not ready to be married. Some men that have come from broken homes look at marriage as a disaster. They have seen the ugliness of an unhealthy relationship and messy divorce. They want to keep your relationship in a “holding pattern” to keep from dealing with those fears. Some men have zero interest in ever being married in the first place. They decided, for whatever reason, that the never, ever, ever want to be married, so they will not offer that kind of commitment to any woman.
Baggage from the past. A previous marriage that ended in a messy divorce or a committed relationship where their heart was broken is quite often an obstacle that many men would rather avoid than deal with. Because they never want to go through a similar situation again, they avoid any chance of it ever happening again. They make up their minds to not offer a commitment so they never put themselves in a position to be hurt ever again.
Peter Pan syndrome. He doesn’t want to grow up. He still wants to go out and party with his fellow “lost boys” rather than be a big boy and settle down. Quite often men like this have friends just like them. They support each other in their immature childish behavior, and as a group may find any woman a threat to their lifestyle. They encourage each other to not settle down. A man can easily do this on his own as well. He may like simply being a bachelor.

These are just some of the reasons why men won’t commit. What is your mans reason? Why won’t he commit to you and either be your boyfriend or your husband? A psychic reading with The Circle of Goddess will uncover the reason why your man won’t commit to you. You can’t expect to help him get over his fear or resistance of commitment if you don’t know WHY he won’t commit in the first place! Here is where a psychic advisor can really come in handy. He may be giving you his reasons why he won’t commit, but that may not be the real reason. A psychic reading will reveal the true issues he has with commitment. Your psychic reading will also offer assistance in getting him past his commitment issues if it is at all possible. The man you love is not going to seek out help so that he can be ready willing and able to commit to you, but you can. Let our psychics help you get the commitment that you desire.

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Dating VS Relationships

admin — Fri, 02 Oct 2009 14:17:11 +0000

There is a big difference between being in a relationship and dating. When a couple starts dating, they are supposed to use this time to get to know one another and decide if this person is right for them to have a relationship with. Too often people want to fast forward through the dating process and get right to a relationship. Without dating for a certain period of time, how do you know a relationship with this person will work?

People often tell us “I was in a relationship with so-and-so for 4 months” and we then ask “Well how long did you date before you got into the relationship?” And we get silence. The truth is they didn’t date at all really in their mind, but to be quite honest, they DID date. Somewhere in there was a date or two by some definition. What occurred was the tendency to obtain an instant relationship.

Think about instant coffee. Which is better, instant coffee or brewed coffee? Yeah you have to wait longer for the brewed coffee but it tastes better. Same thing with pudding. You can have one faster, but if you wait, you get the better version. (If you still don’t believe us compare real mashed potatoes with instant mashed potatoes and you have your answer right there.)

Dating is not a bad thing, It gives the couple the freedom to understand and discover what the other person wants before getting into a relationship. You are more prepared and ready for commitment. The flow moved at a natural pace, not a forced one. It feels right.

Of course some couples have success going directly into a relationship, but not everyone does. Dating prepares you for the concessions you have to make to be in a relationship with someone. There are less surprises when you have dated for a while, and less surprises is usually a good thing when it comes to relationships. No one wants to date for too long though, especially when it seems like the relationship will never start and you will just stay stuck in the dating phase forever.

So many women we have spoken to have complained that things are not like they were in the beginning. Well then why did you rush past that phase if you liked it so much? Wasn’t it nice when you made plans for your dates instead of just sitting around the house watching TV all the time? Wasn’t it nice to try a new restaurant and talk over dinner once in a while? Having take-out and eating it while watching TV can be fun of course, but couples rarely get out as much as they did when they were dating. It seems the longer a couple does date before they get into a relationship, the longer it takes for them to drop all the activities they had when they were dating.

Relationships are most women and men’s ultimate goal, but never forget that dating does serve a purpose as well. Instead of badgering him or her about when you are going to be in a relationship because you have zero patience, ASK US. Continually asking the person you are dating “Where is our relationship going” can put you on the fast track to Nowheresville.

A psychic reading can answer those questions for you, help you to have a little more patience, cut down on your anxiety and help you to enjoy dating. Of course you don’t want to date someone for a long period of time only to have it go nowhere. You may feel that you have then wasted a lot of time. Before you decide to give up on the person you are dating because you think they will never be ready for a relationship, give one of our psychic readers a try. Could you imagine if you ended things and they were getting ready to take your dating to the next level? Then you REALLY would have wasted your time! A psychic reading can help you to avoid making bad decisions, just like it can prevent you from staying with someone for too long. Not every person you date is going to lead to a long term relationship, so why not find out from one of our gifted psychic readers if YOURS is going to or not.

Psychic Lady Sarah and Psychic Sophia Elise are able to give you insight in love, romance, relationships, career and finance or spiritual growth. You may speak with Lady Sarah or Sophia Elise by clicking on their Click4Advisor call buttons below. To learn more about our expert psychic advisors, click on the picture below.

Psychic Lady Sarah and psychic Sophia Elise offer private psychic readings via click4advisor. Simply sign up with click4advisor and get your psychic reading today! All psychic readings are private and the psychic reader is never given your personal information. Our qualified professional psychic readers are available 24/7, ready to give you the best psychic reading possible. At this time are psychic readers are available only by phone. Our psychic readers are not offering email psychic readings at this time. Both of our psychic readers are gifted tarot readers and clairvoyant psychic readers. Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise are known relationship experts, and your psychic reading can help in all affairs of the heart. One phone call with our psychic readers can help you in areas of love, career, relationships, finance, etc. Soon our psychics will be giving free minutes after your first call, so check back with our psychics to find out when you can get some free minutes towards your next psychic reading. Give one of our professional accurate psychic readers a telephone call, you will be glad you did. If you prefer, you can arrange a call with our psychic readers to get your psychic reading or request an appointment with our psychic readers. Our psychic readers are here for you, and want to help. Pick up the phone and give them a call.