Online Tarot Reading Helps When You are Involved with a Player

An online tarot reading will tell you if the man you are falling for is for real, or if he is just playing a game to get what he wants from you. Players are like professional romancers, they have a unique ability to size-up a woman and know just how to pull at her heartstrings. Like any good con man, they will do all the right things, say all the right things, and put in time and effort to get you to let your guard down. Most women do not know that players will put in time and effort, because the harder the chase, the greater the reward. Players love a challenge, and the more you resist, the more they want to win the game. An online tarot reading can tell you if a guy you know is really interested in you for you and if he really means all the things he is saying. You may logically know better, but the more he tries, the weaker you are becoming. When you start developing feelings for a player, your brain takes a nap and your emotions take over. Your mind may have caught him in lies, but your heart is making excuses for him. Once you are hooked on a player, you are in danger of getting your heart broken and feeling disappointed and foolish.

Love and relationships psychics Sophia Elise and Lady Sarah can give you a personalized online tarot reading and warn you, before it is too late, if you are in danger of being played. No one wants to feel foolish for giving the wrong person their heart, and being the victim of a player. An online tarot reading is your best defense against these predatory men that just see it as a game to be won, and have very little (if any) remorse of guilt for hurting or using you. There may be ways to beat player at his own game and play him. You may be able to play a little game of your own and get him to fall for you, instead of the other way around. An online tarot card reading digs deep into the mind and feelings of the player, and will tell you his vulnerabilities and weaknesses, and everything you want to know about him that he won’t tell you.

Sometimes players disappear out of the blue. You may meet a guy where everything seems to be going great, and he is attentive, expresses emotion, and really has shown an interest in pursuing you. Then, suddenly, he stops calling. He just ends it, out of the blue, and the reason (if he gives one) makes no real sense to you. THIS could be the sign of a player. Many women stay stuck on relationships that seemed to have such potential, and they felt a real connection, but in reality, this was how the player plays his game. Was he a player? An online tarot card reading with Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise will tell you the real reason he ended it, and if it was, in actuality just a game.

Friends with Benefits Hoping for More?

Speaking of benefits,  who is really getting them, you or him? If he is quite happy and content with the way things are, what makes you believe that your friends with benefits relationship will be something he will ever want to change? We don’t fix what isn’t broken, do we? So, if it is working for him, why would he want things to be different between the two of you? Live psychic readings with Psychic Lady Sarah and Psychic ophia Elise will reveal if his feelings for you will grow stronger, and a desire to have a more committed relationship with you will ever come about. You may have gone into this thinking “no strings attached” was a good thing, or that it was a way to get more from him down the line. Live psychic readings will tell you if your hopes will actually become reality, or if you are wasting your time.

So what does he think about your friends with benefits situation? Why did he agree to it in the first place? Was it because he wanted you sexually but was not ready for a full-blown relationship, or is this just an easy way for him to get what he needs without giving much in return? You will find out what his agenda really is with live psychic readings, and what he really wants from you, and if he sees a future with you. He may not be ready to get into another relationship right now because he recently broke up with someone, or still has feelings for an ex. Even though there are no strings attached, you may be getting more and more attached to him, and you need to know what his feelings and thoughts are before you get in over your head.

Did he enter into this friends with benefits relationship with you so he could have the freedom to see other people? Do you want to know if he has other friends with benefits other than you? If he is being intimate with women other than you, live psychic readings will easily pick that up. Just because you are not being intimate with anyone else does not mean he isn’t, and you really should be privy to that information.

Live psychic readings will not pass judgement, but are meant to give you the reality of your situation, and make sure that your friends with benefits relationship is actually benefiting you now, and down the line.

Psychic Readings Relationship tips can come in many forms and give insight into many relationship problems, offering viable solutions to resolve these problems. If you are looking for psychic reading and relationship tips, you have come to the right place.

Psychic Reading Relationship tip #1 – If you have been having the same problem over and over again, ask a gifted psychic like Sophia Elise and Lady Sarah how to resolve the problem for good, as opposed to having the same issue arise over and over again.

Psychic Reading Relationship Tips

Psychic Reading Relationship tip #2 – If you want a commitment from a man or woman and cannot seem to get it, and don’t know if you ever will, stop looking for divine intervention and look for spiritual guidance from an accurate psychic reading. Your psychic reader will tell you if a commitment is coming, if it is possible, and if there is anything you can do about making it come to fruition.

Psychic Reading Relationship tip #3. – If you are having trouble getting closure from an ex, and cannot seem to move on, get real help from a psychic. You may be keeping yourself stuck on your ex, and using excuses to keep you from getting closure on that relationship. A psychic will be able to tell you if it is time for you to move on, or if the connection is still present on both sides, and you will be getting back together.

Psychic Reading Relationship tip #4 – If you are involved in affair, you may not have anyone you feel comfortable sharing the truth with. Psychic readers are non biased, and will tell you the future outcome of this affair, and if it will lead anywhere or fizzle out.

Psychic Reading Relationship tip #5 – If your ex is causing problems with your current relationship and you fear you may lose the new love in your life, an accurate psychic can help you find the right way to deal with your ex and how to keep the new love you have strong and secure.

Psychic Reading Relationship tip #6 – If you have not gotten the label of “girlfriend” yet and are either stuck in the booty call, friends with benefits, or just plain friend zone, a psychic reader can see if you will be able to change that status and get that label, or if you are just wasting your time.

Psychic Reading Relationship tip #7 – Letting go of emotional baggage. Emotional baggage from the past can be keeping your current relationship from moving forward. A psychic reading can tell you the best methods to let go of the baggage, and how to get the one you love to let go of theirs.

Psychic Reading Relationship Tip #8 – Improving Communication. If your relationship has deteriorated to the point where the two of you cannot have a civil conversation, a psychic reader can help you find ways to communicate in a productive way, or let you know that this relationship has reached a dead end.

Psychic Reading Relationship tip #9 – Cheating, lying, and betrayal. Should you give him another chance if you found out he was unfaithful? Is it true that “once a cheater, always a cheater”? You heart has already taken a beating, and a psychic reader will tell you if you should give him another chance, or if he can no longer be trusted with your heart.

Psychic Reading Relationship tip #10 – Soulmates. If he is your soulmate, why is it such a difficult relationship? Why are you and your soulmate having such a hard time? A psychic reader can better explain your soulmate connection, and what lessons you both have to learn to make your relationship work.

Psychic reading relationship tips are worth their weight in gold. When you need answers and relationship helps, tips, and guidance, psychic readings are the way to get them. Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise are both master psychics specializing in love and relationships. They are here to help you get your relationship on track and guide you to the relationship you desire and deserve.

You can read more articles about relationship issues and concerns from Sophia Elise and Lady Sarah at their Psychic Relationship Reading  blog.

Will My Boyfriend - Husband Change?

The questions you really need answers to are as follows:

1) What created these changes in the first place?
2) Do you have any responsibility in those changes occurring?
3) Do you need to make any changes as well? What is it you need to do?
4) Would you be willing to make changes if you have to? Can you make those changes?
5) Do you feel that change may no longer be possible? How can you get hope back, if there is any?
6) Do you feel he (your boyfriend or husband) has all the power in your relationship and you have none? How can you get some power back?
7) Are you having the same arguments all the time? What will it take to get those issues solved?
8  Are you the best thing that has ever happened to him yet he is, at times, your worst nightmare?
9) Are you frustrated by what could be between you and your boyfriend or husband and feel it is such a shame that he is ruining everything?
10) Are you enabling him NOT to change?

There are reasons why people change. They are the catalyst that brings about change. What reason does your boyfriend or husband have to change? If they are happy, and you are not, don’t expect them to make changes. Change is HARD. We usually only do it if we have to. Does he have to? Or will you just keep being miserable while he is the happy dictator in your relationship?

Psychics Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise are prepared to help you answer those questions, and to guide you along the path towards change. Stop staying stuck where you are. It will only get worse. Find out with a psychic love reading if your relationship will change, can change, and how to bring about POSITIVE, not NEGATIVE change. You have more power than you think, let psychics Sophia Elise and Lady Sarah empower you to take control of your relationship and get it back on track.

Some relationships will not bend to change, but will break instead. Should you be waiting for your dream to come true, that he will make those changes and the two of you will ride off into the sunset? What if this change is never going to happen? Don’t you want to know before you waste more of your time? Psychics Sophia Elise and Lady Sarah won’t sugarcoat things. They will tell you like it is, good or bad. Keep in mind, when we tell our female clients to make changes to make the men in their life change, they often resist us, or say they can’t change. And guess what? Their relationship does not change, things only go from bad to worse. Is that what you want? Are you ready for the change you say you want so bad?

A psychic love reading, relationship reading or soulmate reading with Sophia Elise or Lady Sarah can really get your relationship back on track if possible and they will able to give you the guidance you need to make it so or the courage you need to move on.

Well, one answer to that question could be ”Because you have taken all that fear away from him”. Another answer could be “Because he really doesn’t care if he loses you”.

Which one is it?

I am not afraid of losing my newspaper because I could simply go out and buy another one, plus the newspaper is not that important to me. I throw it out at the end of the day. Is that how your boyfriend or husband feels about you? Does he think you are replaceable? Does he give you very little worth in his life? If he does, that is your answer right there. You are not afraid to lose something that holds little or no value to you.

The other answer is more complex. If you have repeatedly led your boyfriend or husband to believe that no matter what he does, says, doesn’t do, or doesn’t say that you are not going anywhere then why should he be afraid of losing you? You convinced him that you will put up with anything he dishes out, so why should he be afraid? If there have been no consequences to his actions, nothing negative happens to him after he does what he does, so of course he will do it again.

Let’s use football as an example. You and your husband agree that on Sunday you both have to get some work done around the house. He promises week after week to do it, yet keeps watching the football game. You get angry week after week, and because these things need to get done, you do it yourself or keep on him that this stuff has to get done.

Let’s look at that from his perspective. There is work he doesn’t want to do. It isn’t fun. Watching the game is. What price does he pay to watch that game and not do the work? Some complaining from you. He decides that is a fair enough price to pay to do what he wants and not what you want him to do. So what do you do? RAISE THE PRICE TO SOMETHING HE CANNOT AFFORD OR IS NOT WILLING TO PAY.

So when you wonder why he isn’t afraid of losing you, ask yourself if you made idle threats. Did you tell him if he continues to do “x” you would end the relationship? Did he continue to do it and you did not end the relationship? If the answer is yes, then why did you threaten him with no follow through? You taught him to call your bluff because you do not mean what you say. Either stop threatening him or learn to follow through. Only then will he take you seriously.

If you are worried or depressed because you feel powerless in your relationship and that your husband or boyfriend is not afraid of losing you, give Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise a call for a psychic love reading or tarot card reading for you and your relationship. They can tell you if your guy just simply doesn’t care enough to be afraid, or if you can do something to make him afraid of losing you.

Now if your boyfriend or husband knows it is your birthday and doesn’t wish you a happy birthday, get you anything, or acknowledge it in any way shape or form, sure, you can feel upset and hurt and rightfully so. BUT, if you told your man not to do anything for your birthday and did not WANT it acknowledged in any way shape or form WHY are you now upset because he didn’t?  Sorry, that one is on you. You set him up to hurt you.

Why play games like that where everyone loses? If the man in your life responds to your telephone messages and emails right away, but hates texting and does not respond to texts, WHY ARE YOU INSISTING ON TEXTING HIM? So you can get mad at him? Why force the text issue where there are other ways of communicating? And if that isn’t bad enough, some women have men that are basically good, show loving behavior towards them, treat them well, but the ONE time he doesn’t do what she wants he MUST not love her. Really? Grow up.

People will not always do everything perfect, and you won’t either. Sometimes you have to look at the big picture, not every little thing all by itself. So he screwed up one time. Let it slide unless of course it is a BIG screw-up. If you were the perfect employee and had ONE bad day, would you want your future with the company, your reputation, your bonus, and your pay to be judged on that ONE day? Hell no. You would insist that all your hard work over the years count for something. Well, it is the same in relationships too.

If you ask him stupid questions like “What don’t you like about me?” then you are obviously looking for a fight if you can’t hear the answer and suck it up like an adult. Don’t ask for the truth unless you are ready to hear it and behave like an adult.

If every person could read everyone else’s mind there would BE no relationships. Think about some of the thoughts and feelings that go through your head on a daily basis. What if the people in your life heard them all? Would they hate you right now? Would they even be speaking to you right now? Would you even have a job if your boss heard every thought in your head? Probably NOT.

So, why snoop and read emails he sends to other people? What are you really looking for? If your relationship sucks that bad that you need to find out if he is cheating, checking into things is not so bad. But do you have to read the email he sends his mother or best friend?

The bottom line is that relationships are hard enough, and if you have a good one, be glad you do, and don’t look for ways to cause trouble or ways to sabotage it.

Once I picked my jaw off the floor I said “Why not end it?”. The women turned to me and they were stunned.

“Why end it?” one said.

I asked “Why continue when the signs are so obvious and numerous that is not the right relationship?” I went on to explain that dating is a process we are supposed to use to find the right one for us, and if he is not, let him go and keep looking.

Women now seem to find the wrong guy and then try and make him the right guy! This works less than 1% of the time, if that. They waste years and years crying, fighting, and for what?

Is this really less work and more fun than dumping the wrong guy and putting that same effort into finding the right one? Is it really easier to have the same jamoke do that same shit that pissed you off the last 100 times he did it than to try and find someone who won’t do that to you?

Is it more fun to be disappointed when the same promises are broken time and time again as opposed to trying to find someone whose promise is something more than lip service? Is it more entertaining to try and force, mold, and shape someone into what you want them to be (and they fight you every step of the way) than to find someone who is that guy already? Don’t tell me its hard to find the right guy when you aren’t even lookingand instead wasting time with the wrong one. Don’t complain that you don’t want to be alone when you are with someone who makes you feel alone even when they are there. Don’t tell me you can invest time, energy, effort, tears, etc on the wrong guy, but you can’ invest in yourself? Why don’t you stop trying to make dysfunctional, failing relationships work, and instead focus on you. It is better use of your time, resources and energy.

ARE YOU CONFUSED ABOUT WHAT TO DO WITH YOUR DYSFUNCTIONAL RELATIONSHIP? ARE YOU STRUGGLING TO FIGURE OUT IF IT IS TIME TO MOVE ON OR IF IT IS WORTH FIXING? SOPHIA AND LADY SARAH ARE ABLE TO SEE DEEP INTO THE HEART OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP ISSUES TO SEE WHERE THEY ARE BROKEN. IF IT IS FIXABLE THEY WILL GIVE YOU THE TOOLS TO FIX IT. IF IT IS BROKEN BEYOND REPAIR THEY WILL HELP YOU MOVE ON. GIVE THEM A CALL TODAY AND STOP WASTING TIME IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT IS MAKING YOU UNHAPPY! THEY ARE HERE TO HELP!

Why is closure so elusive for so many women? Could women actually be sabotaging themselves from getting the closure they profess to want so desperately? Or maybe they don’t really want closure but use their need to have it as a way to keep them locked in their obsessive, unproductive thoughts of getting back together with their ex.

Here are some ways that women keep themselves in limbo rather than get closure:

Needing to know: What is he doing right now? Is he hurting? Does he miss me? Does he regret losing me? Does he plan on reuniting with me? Is he happy that it is over? Is he ready to date someone else? Is he ready to sleep with someone else? Has he slept or dated someone else? Does he care about her? Was the sex good? How can he act like nothing is wrong when I am devastated ? Will he ever find someone he loves more than me? Did he actually love me?

What difference does the answer to any of the questions make in your life? These questions are all about HIM, not YOU. No wonder you can’t move on and move forward!!! The answers will not give you closure, because you will only have MORE questions!

Women have wonderful imaginations and are curious by nature. So if we can’t talk to our ex or find out what is going on, we can simply fantasize about it! You can imagine telling him all the horrible things he has done and why he doesn’t deserve to be back with you, you can imagine tears running down his face when he says how sorry he is, you can go over conversations over and over and over again so you know just what to say should you ever see/talk to him. You can picture him miserable, broken down and suffering. The problem is you are living in your imagination too much rather than accepting your reality and dealing with it.

Taking walks down memory lane: While men try to avoid anything that could remind them of their ex, women tend to do the opposite. Women will re-read emails and letters to the point that they have them memorized. That takes them on a literary journey through the relationship they just got out of and re-opens the wounds so they cannot heal. In most cases at times of breakups, women tend to focus on the “shiny happy times” before your ex showed his true colors. We think of all the things we will miss, how the relationship could have worked “If only he ____”, and the pure shame of it all. What women DON’T tend to focus on is the bad side of their ex and all the reasons why it didn’t work out. What they need to realize though is that the signs were probably there from the beginning. Instead of thinking of all the wonderfulness of your ex, think about how much he made you cry, how often you were disappointed, dissatisfied, insecure, angry, hurt, etc.

But don’t dwell on that either because you still won’t get closure. Give yourself ample time to grieve the death of the relationship and then switch your gears to enjoying your LIFE again. You did before he showed up and you can do it now that he is gone.

If you need help obtaining closure from your relationship and seeing if it is time to move on to the next phase of your life, call Lady Sarah or Sophia Elise. During a psychic reading or tarot reading with them, they will be able to see if it is in your best interest to wait it out or move on for good. During your love and relationship reading, Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise will be able to see deep into the heart of your relationship and help you get the answers you need. Talking to friends about our relationship issues is great, but sometimes they dont have the ability to know or understand what is going on beneath the surface. Lady Sarah and Sophia are love, relationship and soulmate experts and they will be able to help you see what to do. A psychic reading or tarot reading with Circle of Goddesses will show you if you truly do need closure and give you advice on how to get it.

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While transits may determine the probability of a cheater, it is important to remember that while a person may have the transits to be a cheater, all individuals have control over their own brain and actions. Sometimes, these tendencies are curbed by conditioning, religious beliefs and maturity.

Having the transits of a cheater doesn’t mean you have to fulfill that role. But, in all probability, in this day and age, chances are strong that if an individual was born with ‘cheating’ transits they will cheat. Sometimes, events (transits) occur that cause a cheater to change their ways, and sometimes these events never occur and the person never changes. That is usually the case. Sometimes, an individual who is not ‘born to cheat,’ gets caught up in situations and makes a decision to stray from an established relationship. This is astrologically speaking, a horse of another color than a ‘born cheater.’

To know if your significant other/interest is a ‘born cheater,’ the transits in the birth chart must be carefully analyzed. There is no single transit for a cheater, there are probably millions. There are no simple generalizations. Often, cheaters are born with planets that represent divorce. This is usually represented by some type of hard aspect between Uranus, and Venus, or Mars and Venus. But, every divorced person is not a cheater. And, at times they are the victims of cheaters.

Cheating birth charts almost always contain a hard Neptune aspect. Neptune is the planet of illusion, delusion and confusion, and well as secrets and lies. A person with prominent Neptune aspects in their chart can soar to the highest of highs, touching the divine or they can sink to the lowest depths of human depravity. Sometimes, in a life time they do both.

Neptune represents both the preacher, the spiritual guru, and the drug addict and the prostitute. It’s a complex planet. But, it’s often there when cheating is involved. Neptune can create a cheater sometimes when it’s touching Venus, Mars or Mercury, especially from the seventh house of marriage. But, this is a generalization again, and this transit alone does not guarantee a cheater, and Neptune in the seventh house can also represent a person who is going to be cheated on. Another possibility of a cheater is someone who has a lot of Gemini or Sagittarius in their chart and likes to keep things interesting.

These individuals are often not satisfied with just one partner and like to experiment and have a distaste for that which becomes mundane. But again, having multiple planets in these signs alone does not guarantee multiple partners. Mars or Pluto in the eighth house is another sign of a person who loves sex.

These people are usually more interested in the erotic side of life than most. This depends upon many factors including what aspects Mars or Pluto in the eighth house is making. Society began to change in the late fifties/early sixties, and a generation was born with Neptune is Scorpio (1957-1970). These individuals in particular, are sometimes unclear about sexual boundaries.

Again, this is a generalization, and if you were born during these years it is absolutely no guarantee you will cheat! But, Scorpio is the natural ruler of the eighth house of shared/joint finances, change and transformation and sex. Sex often has a great fascination for these individuals and some will experience vague and uncertain states connected to emotional and sexual involvement with others. Sometimes it exerts a magnetic influence, although the real thing often does not meet expectations.

So, while there are a million fourteen transits that will help identify a cheater, the entire chart must come under scrutiny before making that accessment. And it all really comes down to what we want as individuals and what price they we willing to pay for it.

used with permission from Leslie Hale, Astrolger

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