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Love STINKS!!!

admin — Sun, 25 Sep 2011 00:00:25 +0000

So many people have a negative view of love. When they think of love they think of the pain, misery, betrayal and hurt that comes with it. Their past experiences have made them see love as something they want and something that will also hurt them. Of course there is a risk every time you let someone into your heart, but there are ways to minimize the chances of getting hurt.

Before you open your heart to someone, really take the time to get to know them. Listen to what they say and see if their behavior matches their words. Some subtle hints can really be red flags that you should have paid attention to in the beginning. Make sure if you are making your heart available to someone that they are available to you as well.

If they don’t open up and share feelings or tell you they have a problem doing so, this may not be the right person for you. It’s fine that they love you, but if they don’t ever tell you, that may not be enough for you.

Are they single? If not then they are not available to you right now. Not 100 percent. And you don’t know when they will be. If you are going to go down this path know that this road can be a long and winding one, with no end in sight.

Where do they live? Across the country or the world? This can be a problem too. It is hard enough to live in the same house and keep a relationship going, and it can be just as hard if not harder with someone who is very far away. If you are smart and take less risky options, you open yourself to better more positive experiences when it comes to love. If you are afraid of unsure, call love psychics, Lady Sarah or Sophia Elise. They can give you insight into your relationship or relationship prospect so you can avoid getting hurt with a soulmate reading, or psychic reading specifically focused on your relationship issues.

How to “TRAP” a Man

admin — Mon, 01 Mar 2010 05:51:07 +0000

This article is not about how to trap a man and get him to be yours forever and ever but the ways women often trap men into falling flat on their faces. Quite often women set men up for failure, and then get upset when they (the women) feel hurt, slighted, or unloved. Every woman has the right to feel unloved if the person she is involved with is not showing loving behavior towards her. The problem is, some women attach feeling “unloved” to every little thing.

Now if your boyfriend or husband knows it is your birthday and doesn’t wish you a happy birthday, get you anything, or acknowledge it in any way shape or form, sure, you can feel upset and hurt and rightfully so. BUT, if you told your man not to do anything for your birthday and did not WANT it acknowledged in any way shape or form WHY are you now upset because he didn’t? Sorry, that one is on you. You set him up to hurt you.

Why play games like that where everyone loses? If the man in your life responds to your telephone messages and emails right away, but hates texting and does not respond to texts, WHY ARE YOU INSISTING ON TEXTING HIM? So you can get mad at him? Why force the text issue where there are other ways of communicating? And if that isn’t bad enough, some women have men that are basically good, show loving behavior towards them, treat them well, but the ONE time he doesn’t do what she wants he MUST not love her. Really? Grow up.

People will not always do everything perfect, and you won’t either. Sometimes you have to look at the big picture, not every little thing all by itself. So he screwed up one time. Let it slide unless of course it is a BIG screw-up. If you were the perfect employee and had ONE bad day, would you want your future with the company, your reputation, your bonus, and your pay to be judged on that ONE day? Hell no. You would insist that all your hard work over the years count for something. Well, it is the same in relationships too.

If you ask him stupid questions like “What don’t you like about me?” then you are obviously looking for a fight if you can’t hear the answer and suck it up like an adult. Don’t ask for the truth unless you are ready to hear it and behave like an adult.

If every person could read everyone else’s mind there would BE no relationships. Think about some of the thoughts and feelings that go through your head on a daily basis. What if the people in your life heard them all? Would they hate you right now? Would they even be speaking to you right now? Would you even have a job if your boss heard every thought in your head? Probably NOT.

So, why snoop and read emails he sends to other people? What are you really looking for? If your relationship sucks that bad that you need to find out if he is cheating, checking into things is not so bad. But do you have to read the email he sends his mother or best friend?

The bottom line is that relationships are hard enough, and if you have a good one, be glad you do, and don’t look for ways to cause trouble or ways to sabotage it.

Is He or She Too Controlling?

admin — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 23:38:10 +0000

Does the man or woman in your life feel the need to take your decisions out of your hands? Do they constantly give you advice that you didn’t ask for and then get mad at you if you didn’t take it? Do they have to plan everything down to the minutest detail leaving no room for anything spontaneous? Do they feel the need to tell you (actually INSIST is more like it) how you should dress, eat and think? Do they want you to do things only after you have spoken to them first and gotten their approval? Do they get mad at you when you make decisions without consulting them first?

Does the man or woman in your life refuse to accept the word “no” from you and will go on and on and on until they break you down so you finally say yes? Are you no longer allowed to do anything by yourself? Has spending time alone with your friends and family become “not allowed”? Have they distanced themselves (and you) from YOUR family and YOUR friends but you can spend plenty of time with THEIR family and friends? Have they caused riffs between you and your friends and family?

Does it seem like no one in your life can get along with them or meet their approval? Have you been doing less and less of the things YOU like but doing more and more of what THEY like? Have they forgotten to even say please and thank you to you anymore? Do they give you the third degree about what YOU do when they arent around but give little or no details about what THEY do when they aren’t with you? Do they make you feel like part of a team when actually they are the boss?

All these are signs of a relationship where you are being controlled. People that love you do not control you. It’s as simple as that. Of course they will say they only want what is best for you and are the only one who really cares enough to look out for you. They make you feel as if you owe them thanks (and whatever else) for loving you THAT MUCH that they have taken over every aspect of your life. What they are really doing is insulting you.

You were able to live, be happy, have hobbies, likes and dislikes, form opinions, and establish relationships with friends and family before they came along. What they are saying to you is that you did EVERYTHING wrong before they showed up and now are going to fix it THEIR WAY. Eventually everyone being controlled realizes it isn’t based on love but power and insecurity, selfishness or perfectionism.

Can a controlling relationship be changed where each member of the couple has equal say? A psychic love and relationship reading can show you if this is possible, and more. Your love psychic can give you the validation that you are being controlled, because many people don’t even know they are being controlled. Your psychic reading can help you find the steps to take to balance the control in your relationship so it all isn’t one-sided, but equal. Your psychic love reading may also show that this relationship is not salvageable either. Only by getting your own personal psychic reading can you find out how to change your life from being under someones thumb to standing on your own two feet with all of your power back. The person trying to control you won’t change, what they are doing is working for them in the little world they are creating for the two of you. If you want to be an equal partner in your relationship some things are going to have to change, and your love psychic can show you what, and how.

Psychic Lady Sarah and psychic Sophia offer private psychic readings via click4advisor. Simply sign up with ether.com or click4advisor and get your tarot reading today! All psychic readings are private and we are never given your personal information. Our qualified professional love psychics are available 24/7, ready to give you the best love, relationship or soulmate reading possible. Our love and relationship psychics are known soulmate experts, and your psychic or tarot card reading can help in all affairs of the heart. One phone call with our psychic readers can help you in areas of love, career, relationships, finance, etc. Soon our psychics will be giving free minutes after your first call, so check back with our psychics to find out when you can get some free minutes towards your next psychic reading. Give one of our professional accurate love psychics a telephone call, you will be glad you did. If you prefer, you can arrange a call with our psychic readers to get your psychic reading or request an appointment with our psychic readers. Our psychic readers are here for you, and want to help. Pick up the phone and give them a call.

Mixed Signals…? We Can Help You Un-mix Them and Gain Clarity

admin — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 22:50:03 +0000

When he or she calls you they seem so happy to hear your voice but then they don’t call for a while. Every time you spend together you both seem to enjoy, but the time you spend is far and few between. When you are together everything seems great, but they seem to sometimes pull away. They haven’t told you they aren’t seeing anyone but you but have implied they don’t want you to see anyone else.

Sometimes you feel like you are in a relationship, sometimes you don’t. That is because you are receiving mixed signals. No wonder you are confused!

A prime example of a mixed signal is when the person talks about your relationship as having a future, then turns around and makes a comment later on about how they arent ready to be in a serious relationship or get married. What are you to think? Do they, or don’t they? How many times have people found themselves in the position where there “friend” of the opposite sex either talks about intimate things or initiates something physical between the two of you? They said they wanted nothing but your friendship, but the way they are acting is saying something else entirely.

Why the mixed signals? Do they know what they want from you or not? Mixed signals can drive a person crazy. You never seem to know where you stand or what the other person is really thinking or feeling? How can a man or woman tell you how attractive you are and compliment you constantly on your looks yet never make a pass at you or act offended when you make one towards them? You thought the signal was clear, but now you are totally confused.

How can you read mixed signals? It can be very difficult, but start by trusting actions more than words. It is easier to lie with words, your reactions and behavior and more difficult to hide. Another great example of mixed signals is when one day they act like they adore you and the next they avoid you like you have cooties. Mixed signals such as that can really make the recipient pissed off along with confused.

A psychic reading can help you read mixed signals correctly. A psychic advisor can differentiate between what signal they are trying to send versus what signal they are trying to hide behind. Learning how to figure out mixed signals can be more difficult than learning a foreign language. Why not leave that to us? A psychic reading can cut through the b.s. and also tell you why this person is sending you mixed signals. Is it because they are playing games with you or for another reason? You don’t want to waste your time with someone who is playing games with you, so why not give one of our psychic advisors the opportunity to help you figure out what these mixed signals really are saying.

Psychic Life Coach

admin — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 05:00:29 +0000

You have come to a fork in the road, what do you do? Choose the path on the left or the one on the right? Wouldn’t it be great if you had someone to help you choose which path to pick? A psychic life coach can do just that for you. A psychic life coach can help you to free yourself of all baggage you have accumulated along your life’s journey. How heavy is your load right now? A psychic life coach can help you shed that unnecessary weight from your shoulders, making you feel stronger and more empowered.

If you feel unfulfilled in your career a psychic life coach can help you get on the right track to success. Why are other people getting promoted and not you? A psychic life coach can help pinpoint the reasons why. A psychic life coach can see what other peoples impression is of you and your work, and help you to change their perception for the better. A psychic life coach can help you unlock your own personal power, instead of letting your roadblocks get in your way.

Some obstacles in our life we put their ourselves and may not even be aware that we are doing it. A psychic life coach can find those obstacles that are keeping you from reaching your goals. You may want to make self-improvements that can assist you in growing spiritually, or help you with personal growth, relationships, communicating with others and finding your niche. A psychic life coach can help you discover ways to help yourself and better yourself and your situation.

Are you facing a financial crisis, career stalemate, problems in relationships, and feel like everything is falling apart. Don’t give up or give in, let a psychic life coach help you find your way out and get things in your life on a positive path. A psychic life coach can help you come up with a plan, a step-by-step method to obtaining the changes you want in your life, and will support you along the way. A psychic life coach is there to give you strength when you need it most.

Would you like to change careers because you are unhappy? A psychic life coach can help you to find the right career for you, and help you find direction. Many people feel as though they want to change careers but have no IDEA what career they should look into. You and your psychic life coach can discover the perfect career for you and then come up with a plan to make it happen.

Has your get up and go got up and left? A psychic life coach can help you get excited about your life again! A psychic life coach will help you get out of the rut you are stuck in and help you to bring things into your life that make you feel motivated again! A psychic life coach does not do the work for you, they give you the tools to help yourself, and those are tools you can use for the rest of your life. If your life has been full of hard knocks, your ego and self-esteem may have taken a considerable beating. Your self-doubt and the fear that comes with it can be keeping you from the things you want most out of life. A psychic life coach can help you to build back your self esteem and ego, so you can take on any challenges, and reap the rewards of the new options you choose.

A psychic life coach can help to identify why the same relationship problems keep happening to you over and over again. Together you can learn the skills you need to either get out of a toxic relationship or fix the one that you are in instead of causing further damage. A psychic life coach can show you the relationship patterns you and your loved one repeat, and how to break the cycle of an unhealthy relationship.

People want change, but often have no idea how to create change. That is where a psychic life coach comes in. You tell your psychic life coach what you want to change, and if it is at all possible, your psychic life coach will show you how to do it. A psychic life coach is convenient because you can talk to them any time or any day by phone. You don’t have to leave your house, pay for gas, all you have to do is wait for the phone to ring. Our psychic life coaches will always respect your privacy, and give you the individual attention that you need. If you look at your future and don’t like what you see, why not let us take a look and see how we can help you help yourself? If you are facing any major decision regarding relationships, career, etc you owe it to yourself to get the support and guidance a psychic life coach can give you.

Psychics Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise are able to tap into these energies and see if your love spell will be successful and also determine if this is the right time for the love spell to be performed. Both Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise are able to give you insight in love, romance, relationships, career and finance or spiritual growth. You may speak with them by clicking on their Click4Advisor call buttons to the left.

Psychic Love Reading

admin — Mon, 19 Oct 2009 03:01:38 +0000

People call psychics to find answers to questions about work, career, family or finances. But let’s face it, most people make the decision to call a psychic to find clarity in their love relationships. They want answers only a psychic love reading can provide. During a psychic love reading, a love and relationship psychic advisor can tell you where your current relationship is heading, if your partner is cheating or if they are returning after a break up.

A psychic love reading will be able to tell you where your current relationship is headed. If you have been seeing someone for some time, our love and relationship psychics will be able to tell you if this relationship is one that will move into commitment or marriage, if you will have children and so on. A love and relationship reading will also be able to point out any red flags or problems and our psychics will let you know those before they occur so you are prepared and head them off before they become an issue.

A psychic love reading can help you see your relationship from a different perspective. During a psychic love reading your love and relationship psychic will connect not only to your energy, but to the energy of your loved one to see the connection between you. During a psychic love reading, you will be able to assess the barriers that are preventing your current relationship from becoming the relationship you not only desire but deserve. By working closely with your love and relationship psychic during your psychic love reading you can identify the blockages that are holding you back.

A psychic love reading will be able to identify not only surface problems in your relationship, but those that go much deeper, perhaps creating the fear of intimacy preventing your partner from moving forward. A good love and relationship psychic will be able to give you guidance and advice to assist you in breaking past some of these issues.

Many people call for a psychic love reading when they have recently broken up with their partner and want to know if there will be a reconciliation. During the love and relationship reading your psychic will be able to look into the future so you know whether or not your love interest is returning or if it is truly over. If they are returning, a good love and relationship psychic will provide coaching and guidance on what steps you can take to ensure there is not another breakup.

Often during a psychic love reading your love psychic will be able to see and understand the reasons for the breakup. There will be the reasons that were presented to you on the surface by your partner, but very often the real reasons for the breakup are hidden. A psychic love reading will be able to unlock the mystery behind the breakup so you can be fully aware of what happened. For example, your partner may tell you the reasons for ending the relationship are because he wishes to spend more time learning how to weave baskets as it is a life long dream of his. During your psychic love reading, however, your psychic is able to see the real reason for the breakup is because he is insecure due a bad relationship experience in the past. Once you know and understand the truth behind the breakup, and there is a chance for a reconciliation, your love and relationship psychic will be able to outline specific steps to work through their issues.

Even though you may want to get back together with your ex and have been hoping for that to happen sometimes it is just not in the cards for the two of you. A psychic love reading will show whether or not the relationship will come back together A psychic love reading will reveal if it is time to move on. If your love and relationship psychic sees that the relationship has come to and end, they will tell you during your psychic love reading. Our psychics will not keep you stuck in a hopeless situation hoping for change nor will they give you a fairy tale ending if there is not one. If the relationship between you and your ex looks as if it has reached its final closure, your love psychic will tell you the truth.

Many people call a love and relationship psychic to see if their partner is cheating on them. During a psychic love reading, your psychic will be able to see if they have cheated in the past, if they are cheating now or if they plan on cheating in the future. During your psychic love reading your psychic will be able to provide guidance on how to deal with the cheating issue so you can address it from a place of empowerment and control.

Sometimes we have found ourselves walking the solo path for quite some time and wonder if we will ever find ourselves in a romantic situation again. A psychic love reading will reveal if there is someone new coming in to your life. A psychic love reading will tell you if this new person will be there for a season or for the long haul. Our love and relationship psychics will give you the guidance you need to find the man or woman who would make a good partner for you.h

Psychic Lady Sarah and Psychic Sophia Else are able to give you insight in love, romance, relationships, career and finance or spiritual growth. You may speak with Lady Sara or Sophia Elise by clicking on their Click4Advisor call buttons below. To learn more about our expert psychic advisors, click on the picture below.

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I will guide you along your path and provide guidance to help you attain the desires of your heart in matters of love, life and career. I will assist you in finding balance in your spiritual, personal and professional life as well as attain peace of mind and the right path for your future.

Psychic Lady Sarah and psychic Sophia offer private psychic readings via click4advisor. Simply sign up with click4advisor and get your psychic reading today! All psychic readings are private and the psychic reader is never given your personal information. Our qualified professional psychic readers are available 24/7, ready to give you the best psychic reading possible. At this time are psychic readers are available only by phone. Our psychic readers are not offering email psychic readings at this time. Both of our psychic readers are gifted tarot readers and clairvoyant psychic readers. Our psychic readers are known relationship experts, and your psychic reading can help in all affairs of the heart. One phone call with our psychic readers can help you in areas of love, career, relationships, finance, etc. Soon our psychics will be giving free minutes after your first call, so check back with our psychics to find out when you can get some free minutes towards your next psychic reading. Give one of our professional accurate psychic readers a telephone call, you will be glad you did. If you prefer, you can arrange a call with our psychic readers to get your psychic reading or request an appointment with our psychic readers. Our psychic readers are here for you, and want to help. Pick up the phone and give them a call.

Relationship Myths

admin — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 22:23:03 +0000

Thanks to televisoin, books and movies many folks have completely unrealistic and just plain wrong expectations when it comes to relationships. It is time to put the relationship myths to rest and get to the truth. Let’s go through some of the most popular relationship myths one by one:

People in healthy strong relationships never fight. This is simply not true. What people in healthy strong relationships do that others don’t is they know how to fight or argue without escalating. They know how to stop an argument from getting out of hand and doing damage. They know how to not sweat the small stuff and not let a fight go on and on. They know how to apologize in a sincere and timely manner.
If he or she loves me they should know what to do and not to do. Wrong! People are not mind readers and it is unfair to make them guess and you get mad when they get it wrong. If you love THEM then you will not be afraid to let them know what to do and what not to do. You also wouldn’t play games with them by making them guess. No one can live up to the standard of “mind reader” without disappointing you. What you want is unrealistic.
People that are really in love don’t want or need to spend time apart. Again, this is not true. Being tied to one another’s hip may work for some couples, but just because other couples find time apart healthy and stimulating (and aren’t insecure about being apart) doesn’t mean they aren’t in love and that their relationship isn’t strong.
Love conquers all. No it doesn’t. If the one you love has an addiction, their love for you won’t overcome it. They need to get help for themselves, not for you.
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Not necessarily. People can change their ways, but at the same token, some don’t. Some men and women may cheat because they really didn’t take their relationship seriously or were on their way out. Would they cheat in every relationship? Maybe yes, maybe no. Of course you should be smart about this. If you have been cheated on by someone 7 times already it’s a safe bet that they will be making it 8 shortly. But, if you found out they cheated on a girlfriend in high school that doesn’t mean they will cheat on YOU.

Some of the disappointment and unhappiness in your relationship can be because you have unrealistic expectations. You may not have found “the one” because the relationship myths you believe make it impossible for “the one” to exist. Let us help you get rid of these myths once and for all. You don’t have to lower your standards, we don’t believe anyone should! What you do need to do is to create standards that are realistic, and not get disappointed or insecure for the wrong reasons. Our psychic relationship coaches can help you break old patterns, see things in a new way, and help you to find not the man or woman of your dreams, but the man or woman of your reality!

Psychic Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise are able to give you insight in love, romance, relationships, career and finance or spiritual growth. You may speak with Lady Sarah or Sophia Elise by clicking on their Click4Advisor call buttons below. To learn more about our expert psychic advisors, click on the picture below.

Long Distance Relationships

admin — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 02:16:34 +0000

Are you involved in a long distance relationship? Did circumstances pull and already established relationship apart because of a career move or sick relative? Your long distance relationship may have started on the internet. However your long distance relationship started, there are certain challenges one must face in order for it to continue.

A long distance relationship has its own unique challenges. You are not with the one you love (and they aren’t with you) so although you may want to trust them, it might be difficult. Can you be sure they aren’t dating someone else? Can they be sure you aren’t dating anyone else? The answer is no. You can believe what you want, but you aren’t there to know for sure. You shouldn’t assume either way, and there are some ways to find out.

Don’t take everything for granted and put 100% of your trust in them right away. Make them earn it. If your gut it telling you something is wrong, don’t ignore it. By the same token don’t come up with nightmare theories about all the horrible things they could be doing either. Play it smart. Before you invest money in plane tickets, or relocating, wouldn’t it be a good idea to get some inside information? A psychic reading can give you just that. Your psychic advisor can tell you if your long distance relationship will stand the test of time, and what the future outcome will be. You are more vulnerable when you are in a long distance relationship, and a psychic reading can prepare you and inform you of all you need to know.

The one you love could be totally trustworthy and deserving of your love yet your insecurity or trust issues are causing doubts and problems in your long distance relationship. Why not get a psychic reading and find out the truth. Isn’t peace of mind priceless? Don’t you want to know before it’s too late and your long distance relationship ends when it was all in your mind? Don’t let needless insecurities get in the way.

A long distance relationship between even the strongest couples can have problems and issues. If you have a fight, it isn’t as easy to make up and set things right. All you have are words, the person isn’t there with you to calm you and make you feel as though everything is right again. You may pick fights that you didn’t mean to start and now you are worried that you caused a rift. When something goes wrong, like you lose your job, are sick, or something bad happens in your life, you want the one you love with you. It may not be their fault that they can’t be with you, but you still get mad at them anyway. It’s only human. So many things can challenge a long distance relationship, but your psychic advisor is on YOUR side, and here to help you. Sometimes we need a helping hand or the voice of reason and truth. Let our psychic advisors be that for you.

The psychics from the Circle of Goddesses are able to give you insight in love, romance, relationships, career and finance or spiritual growth. You may speak with them by clicking on their Click4Advisor call buttons below. To learn more about our expert psychic advisors, click on the picture below.

Where is Your Relationship Going?

admin — Thu, 15 Oct 2009 05:47:09 +0000

All relationships are different. They are as unique as the two individuals that define them. Some couples are married, some have an open relationship, some are simply sexual partners with no strings attached, yet each is considered a relationship. Too many people overuse the term relationship to describe the status between themselves and the person they love. Time and again, frustrated clients ask:

When are we going to be in a committed relationship?
When will we take our relationship to the next level?

Our questions back to you are:

If you wanted to be in a committed relationship, why aren’t you?
Is your partner against committed relationships or not ready for one?
Have you even discussed commitment with them?
Are you waiting for the “commitment fairy” to fly down and grant you your wish?

The answers to these questions, and more, should be discussed while you are dating. Often we find the term “relationship” is used too loosely and quickly when people first start going out. When you first meet someone and start going out socially with them, you are dating. Period. The dating phase is there for a reason: to discover BEFORE you invest yourself emotionally and psychologically whether or not they are looking for the same things you are. Oscar Hammerstein nailed it in lyrics for his musical “The King and I”: “Getting to know you, getting to know all about you….” It is during this important dating phase that you are getting to know someone to determine if they will be a good relationship choice for YOU.

Dating is the process of discovering if the person you are “dating” is relationship material. Use this time wisely, and honestly (in other words, don’t kid yourself) to see if this person really is a good prospect for what you are looking for relationship-wise. Now is the time to talk, listen, observe, learn and watch. Listen to what your partner says. Does it match their actions? Listen to what they say then let time and facts prove what they are saying to be truth. Make someone EARN your TRUST. Trust is not something to be given away freely, it should be earned, and if your partner is serious about growing the relationship with you, they will jump hurdles to ensure you trust them.

Be honest and open; let your partner know what you want out of life, relationships, love and sex. This is the time to express your needs and expectations as well as what factors would cause you to end the relationship. These important issues should be discussed during the dating phase, even more than you discuss favorite music, movies and restaurants. Obviously the first words on a first date should not be “Are you ready to get married?” but it should be more than acceptable to ask them what they are looking for.

Of course people can lie to you and they will, or they can “think” they are ready for a relationship when they are not. You will be much better off in the long haul if you find out what you need to know in the beginning. Ask the right questions in the early stages, such as:

Are you looking for a relationship?
What does being in a relationship mean to you?
What do you expect out of a relationship, and what can someone expect out of YOU?
When would you consider monogamy appropriate?
How long would you need to be with someone before you would consider yourself in a relationship?
How long would you need to date someone before you would consider being monogamous?
What about your past relationships do you miss?
What have you learned from your past relationships?
What about your past relationships do you never want to go through again?

Obviously you won’t want to drill someone with all these questions in the first hour of meeting them, and probably not all on the first date, but these questions are more important than knowing where the person went to high school, their favorite song or color, or what kind of car they drive. These are the “road signs” of what to reasonably expect from them if you decide to take the relationship “journey” with them. Keep in mind while this person is sharing their thoughts on the subject, it is your opportunity to speak up to let THEM know what your feelings are so they know what to expect from YOU.

Often during the dating phase, things start to deteriorate. One or both parties will say “It was so good in the beginning; we must be going through a rough patch”. Why does the rough patch sometimes seem to last longer than the good times? The answer is simply… because the first few months are always the best. Everyone is on their best behavior. As people become comfortable with each other, they let their guard down, and start acting more naturally. So the experience is what it is like to DATE that person for a few months, NOT what it WOULD be like to be in a relationship with them. Big difference.

Many people don’t know when it is time to bail and continue to hold on to the good times waiting for them to return. They don’t. They won’t. Accept it and move on. No one can maintain their “best behavior” for longer than several months. It is difficult and exhausting to maintain the façade. The masks crumble and the true personalities and behaviors are exposed… now THIS is the REAL person. This is who you will have the relationship with. It will never be the same as it was in the beginning. It is just not possible. Cut your losses and move on.

To really KNOW someone you should date regularly for about NINE MONTHS – yes NINE. It does not matter how much you talk on the phone until all hours of the morning, how great the sex is, how wonderful he makes you feel, how intense the connection is or whether both of your grandmothers have the exact same name and birthday… it still takes nine months. After all, that is how long it takes to make a baby, so why should a relationship with someone you want to spend the rest of your life with take any less? It shouldn’t.

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Many people operate under the wrong assumption that because they have sex with someone it automatically advances them to relationship status. WRONG! It takes time and patience which unfortunately the majority of people are not willing to invest. In today’s world of instant gratification, largely a byproduct of the internet, many people are looking for “instant relationships”. Remember, there are NO INSTANT RELATIONSHIPS and if you find yourself following this wrong way of thinking, we guarantee it will ultimately bring frustration and heartache.

So many people have sex with someone in the early stages of the dating game and invariably find themselves wondering:

Is s/he sleeping with anyone else?
Are we exclusive?

The real question, however, is why are you asking yourself this question? You should have asked the person you slept with, during the DATING process…and definitely before sleeping with them.

When a couple has dated long enough – yep, that is NINE MONTHS folks – and decided to be exclusive, they are officially IN a relationship. But where is the relationship going? Will it stay exactly as it is…just an exclusive relationship? Will you co-habitate? Will there be an engagement followed by marriage?

Many people want the relationship to go in one direction but their partner is fine where it is. Now we have two people wanting two different things, each trying to convince the other their way is best. Well, ONE of you is going to LOSE. Now is the time to find out if the relationship is going somewhere, or nowhere. You need to determine if it is going where YOU want it to go and you need to find out NOW rather than waste any more of your precious time. If you want to stay with someone knowing they will never live with you, marry you, have children with you or be committed only to you – that is fine. It is YOUR choice. It is time you made that choice based on REALITY rather than making choices based on your FANTASIES of what could be.

Let us help guide you through the relationship phase so it ends up in the place you want it to be. Let us help you get out of a relationship that is never going to go your way. Isn’t it time you faced the truth?

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Relationship Mistakes Part I

admin — Thu, 15 Oct 2009 05:15:50 +0000

No one wants to make mistakes in a new relationship. We all hope for the best and take our chances with our hearts. A great way to better your chances is to avoid some of the top common relationship mistakes such as:

Being too needy/clingy. If you call him or her constantly and expect them to talk to you each and every time they may think you are too high maintenance. Don’t expect them to drop their entire life and re-arrange it for you. Of course in the beginning they may drop everything and make time for you but then they have to fit you into their real life. If you immediately show them that what they has to offer is not enough, they will give up and let you go.

Talking way to much about your ex or comparing him/her to your ex. Getting some insight into your previous relationship may be helpful or interesting at first, but if you ramble on and on they may view you as bitter or not over your ex. When they see what they consider a “red flag” they may begin to distance themselves from you. Everyone wants to be recognized as an individual, and being compared to someone else like an ex (especially when a fight is going on) is annoying and insulting.

Becoming intimate or saying I love you too soon. When you become intimate with someone too soon they cannot help but wonder if that is your M.O. Do you sleep with everyone right away? Becoming intimate with someone too soon can also put you in the “booty call” category without your knowing it. Once in that category, it is very hard to get out of it. Although we all want to be loved, we know we can only be truly loved when someone really knows us. If those words are said to quickly, they have little value because the person hearing those words wonders if you really mean it. Are you saying what they think you want to hear? How can they love you if they don’t really know you? It may also scare someone into thinking you are moving way to fast.

Constant complaining. You think they work to much. They spend too much time with their friends and family. You don’t like his friend Joe. Well, guess what? Those are all a part of THEIR life, so they feel you are criticizing their LIFE. How can you fit into their life if you seem to like no part of it? Then they wonder if they would have to change everything in their life to make you happy. Rather than do that, they let YOU go.

Have you ever wondered what you are doing wrong and why your relationships either never get off the ground or end in disaster? Have you met some really great people that you thought were relationship material yet the whole thing fell apart? Do you wonder what relationship mistakes you may be making? A psychic reading can pinpoint where your relationship mistakes occurred. Your psychic advisor can show you what behaviors are preventing you from holding onto relationships. Why keep making the same relationship mistakes when you can make some simple changes to get what it is you want? Call one of our gifted compassionate psychics and let them help you stop making relationship mistakes right away before another one gets away!